Selena Gomez dropped ‘Scared Of Loving You’ as the first single of the album ‘I Said I Love You First’
With the day of love and romance falling on a Friday in 2025, our faves like Sabrina Carpenter, Perrie and Selena Gomez, couldn’t resist treating us to some fresh bops on new music Friday.
Selena returns with a new single, ‘Scared Of Loving You’, a collaboration with her fiancé, Benny Blanco. ‘Scared Of Loving You’ is the first single from their upcoming joint album ‘I Said I Love You First‘ which is set to be released on March 21st.
Selena’s ‘Scared Of Loving You’, depicts anything but being scared of loving. Instead, Selena sings: “I’m not scared of loving you, I’m scared of losing you.” With this being a collaboration with Benny, we can assume she’s singing these lyrics about her beau who she’s engaged to marry. When she announced the song on her Instagram, Benny adorably commented: “i’m not scared of loving u bb.”

Selena Gomez and Benjamin Levin (Benny Blanco) are two of the writers on the song. Billie Eilish‘s brother Finneas O’Connell (FINNEAS) is also credited as writer on the song and a producer – along with Benny – which isn’t so surprising as he worked on Selena’s ‘Lose You To Love Me’ back in 2020.
Selena’s album with Benny is set to be released on 21st March. This comes after the ‘Love On’ singer insisted she didn’t have any new music coming just four months ago.
The lyrics to Selena Gomez’s ‘Scared Of Loving You’:
VERSE 1
If I broke your heart, would you take me back?
If I broke my arm, would you sign my cast?
When I was young, I would love too fast
Hope I don’t repeat my past
CHORUS
‘Cause I’m not scared of lovin’ you
I’m just scared of losin’ you
I’m not scared of anyone or dying young
Or if you’re gonna find somebody new
‘Cause how could they love you
As much as I do?
As much as I do

VERSE 2
If I lose my shit, promise not to laugh
If I throw a fit and get photographed
Would you take my side? Would you hold my hand?
If they sell a lie, don’t let ’em send me back
CHORUS
‘Cause I’m not scared of lovin’ you
I’m just scared of losin’ you
I’m not scared of anyone or dying young
Or if you’re gonna find somebody new
‘Cause how could they love you
As much as I do?
As much as I do
